Facing accusations of domestic violence can feel like a gut punch, especially when the claims are false. If you are facing a high-conflict breakup or divorce, high emotions can cause your partner to use the legal system to gain leverage in custody battles.
In Kentucky, the courts take these allegations seriously. Mismanaging your response can result in severe repercussions, such as incarceration and the permanent termination of parental rights. To avoid this, you must take proactive steps to safeguard your reputation and your future.
Keep your distance from the accuser
As soon as you find out about the accusations, your emotions can overwhelm you. While talking to the accuser can be tempting, any attempt to contact them is detrimental to your case.
If the courts issue a domestic violence order or an emergency protective order, any form of communication constitutes a criminal violation. Silence should be your course of action now.
Gather evidence to rebut the allegations
False accusations are often a he-said, she-said battle. The best way to face this is to compile convincing evidence. You can start by logging your whereabouts and collecting witness statements from neighbors, family and friends. If you have texts or emails that show the other party threatening to ruin you or make up stories, ensure to save them in multiple backups.
Refrain from using social media
You may want to use your social media accounts during this time, but this can make the situation worse. It is possible that the accuser may be spreading rumors about you online, claiming that you physically injured them to get a reaction from you. Do not let your urges get ahead and respond with an angry post. This can be twisted and used against you in court.
Fight the allegations with legal counsel
Accusations can change your reputation at work and your relationships with your children. Because a domestic violence conviction can tarnish your record, it is wise to seek legal counsel on fighting the false allegations.
